I recently got the results of my Geno 2.0 DNA test. This test gives results for distant ancestors and since I am female, it only gives mitochondrial DNA.
I already knew from Thomas' test at FTDNA that the haplogroup for our matrilineal line was J--J2a1a1a2. There is an interesting book written by Bryan Sykes entitled The Seven Daughters of Eve.
The "daughters" refer to the 7 haplogroups to which the mitochondrial DNA of Europeans can be traced. Sykes created a story to explain each haplogroup and its migration out of Africa. J or Jasmine as it is referred to, moved out of the Middle East toward Europe about 8,500 years ago, bringing agriculture with it.
The test makes comparisons between the typical percentages of ethnicities in European populations and the individual (me). I completed a survey of my known ancestors and their geographical origins. My largest pool was British. The typical makeup of that group is 49% Northern European, 33% Mediterranean and 17% Southwest Asian.
For our line the results were: 43% Northern European; 37% Mediterranean; 18% Southwest Asian and 2% Native American. This last result was a bit of a surprise.
I went to a program sponsored by Irish Genealogical Society International and the speaker gave an overview of DNA & genealogy. I ran this result by her, wondering how far back this might be--she said, "think 1700s". I then found information on the Geno 2.0 website saying that 2% Native American would mean that the DNA was introduced about 5 or 6 generations back.
Our matrilineal line is Hogan-->Morehead-->Grandelmyer-->Thompson-->Lewis-->unknown.
Sarah Jane Lewis was born about 1822 in Tompkins County, New York. Nothing is known of her mother. Her father's name was likely John Lewis. A John Lewis was with her & her family in the 1850 Federal Census in St. Paul, Minnesota Territory.
More digging to do!
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Showing posts with label Hogan. Show all posts
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Saturday, May 12, 2012
Marguerite Luella Hogan Burns, RIP
Yesterday was the 22nd anniversary of Mom's death. Her wake was on Mother's Day. Extremely fitting!
May she rest in peace.
May she rest in peace.
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
5th cousin to my Grandmother's Cat
Well, the DNA is back on Colette's spit test! We sent our DNA into 23andMe to see what we could find out about our relationship. We do have a bit of DNA in common. We were categorized as 3rd to distant cousins.
If we follow the information we have, I am about 7 generations from the common ancestor and Colette is 5 generations, so I guess that would be distant! We might be 3rd cousins twice removed. Colette and my grandfather were 3rd cousins. There are still a few lose ends to clear up. Anyway, it's the Herlihy name that is the connection.
If we follow the information we have, I am about 7 generations from the common ancestor and Colette is 5 generations, so I guess that would be distant! We might be 3rd cousins twice removed. Colette and my grandfather were 3rd cousins. There are still a few lose ends to clear up. Anyway, it's the Herlihy name that is the connection.
Friday, February 24, 2012
James Sheehan Obit
This is the James Sheehan married to Mary M. Doyle. I have written about this family previously. The story is that they emigrated from Ireland with help from Bridget and Michael Hogan.
The obituary appeared in the St. Paul Dispatch on March 9, 1922.
The obituary appeared in the St. Paul Dispatch on March 9, 1922.
Sheehan--James, in St. Paul, March 8, 1922 in his seventy-first year. Family residence 486 Rice. Survived by his loving wife, Mary, Patrick C., John J., James W., Joseph M., Alphonse N. and Mrs. Alphonse Arcand of White Bear and Mrs. Chamberlain of Kuna, Idaho. Funeral from Kessler & McGuire's parlors, 115 West Tenth street. Friday, 9:30 A.M. Services at Cathedral at 10 A. M. Interment, Calvary. Chicago, New York, St. Louis and Kuna, Idaho papers please copy.Now perhaps I will be able to find his wife's death date if she is buried in the same plot.
Friday, March 11, 2011
Getting Ready for Paddy's Day
Saturday, January 1, 2011
O'Keefes
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| Mary Keefe Hogan |
As far as I know, Mary did not have any immediate family here in Minnesota. She did however have some relations. Most of the information for this came from Lill. Besides the immediate family, Hogans were related to Hartnetts, Downeys, McMahons, Martins, McCanns and Sheehans.
The Hartnetts were the easiest to locate and follow through in the records. Hartnetts lived at 64 Lyton Place near the Michael Hogan family who lived at 65 Lyton Place, in St. Paul. Lill was not sure if she was an aunt or cousin of Mary Keefe Hogan. It turns out that Mrs. Hartnett was Ellen Keeffe. She married Maurice Hartnett on 2nd Dec 1871 at the St. Paul Cathedral.
In going through church records, I came upon the marriage of Bridget Keefe to Michael McCann. The witnesses to the marriage were Ellen Hartnett and Mary Hogan. Banns omitted. This means they did not publish the banns at church the required 3 times. They were married 2 Mar 1895. This was a hurry up marriage. Bridget lived in Mannanah, Meeker, Minnesota. This is when I started to think of the Hogans as a matriarchal society. Why were these 2 women the witnesses at this O'Keefe girl's wedding?
Also from "Litchfield" as it was referred to, was the family of Annie & John Martin. I heard of this family from one of the "Murray Girls" as they were called. Her mother was Elizabeth Hogan, daughter of Crabby Mary. Annie Martin's husband died at a young age and the Murrays used to visit them and help them financially. This gave some credence to the fact that they were related. It is one thing to help out a neighbor, but this involved some doing because of the distance. Annie O'Keefe Martin and Bridget O'Keefe McCann were sisters. Their father was John O'Keefe of Mannanah. As I researched this family, I was puzzled why his death record did not appear in the Meeker county records. It turned out that he died at 64 Lyton Place in St. Paul, the home of Ellen O'Keefe Hartnett. This began the speculation that possibly John and Ellen were brother and sister. A newspaper bit said that John was very sick and had gone to St. Paul for medical treatment. His obituary mentioned he had a brother, Michael of Eden Valley. So now, this family begins to configure as: John, Michael and Ellen O'Keefe. On Michael's death certificate, it says his parent's are Michael Keefe and Mary Cloon. Ellen's record only gives O'Keefe as the father. John's record does not give a father's name. Michael's death record says he was from County Clare. The gravestones for the O'Keefes in Mannanah say they were from County Clare. Our Crabby Mary was from Co. Clare as well.
Downeys. I looked for a long time for Downeys. No luck. I followed back the McMahon relation. When I found the death record of Margaret McMahon, it turned out her father's name was Downing. That helped! Her parents were Michael Downing and Margaret O'Keefe. So here was another O'Keefe relative. Her parents were given as Michael O'Keefe and Nora O'Brien. So, she is not a sister of the above three. Margaret was also married previously to a Conners. She had a son Patrick Conners who was later known as Patrick Henry Downing. It appears he took on the last name of Margaret's second husband.
In the meantime I continued to research the family of Michael O'Keefe of Eden Valley, Minnesota. He had four children: Bridget, John, Mary and Michael. None of them married. I checked out the obits for further info. This was serendipitous!!!! The day after Mary's obit, the front page, headline news was her will! This answered so many questions! And added a few more!
Litchfield Independent, 29 September 1926Whoa!! This will pieced together a number of relationships. This established that John, Ellen and Michael O'Keefe were indeed siblings. It also added a few. Research on the other first cousins revealed more relationships.
The Will of Miss Mary O'Keefe
Leaves Bulk of her Property to Church Use
WILL OF MISS MARY O'KEEFE FILED IN PROBATE COURT
The petition for hearing on the will of Miss Mary O'Keefe of Eden Valley, who died a week or two ago, was filed in the probate court last Monday. E. P. Peterson is named as the executor of the will, which is dated Sept. 26, 1925. Miss O'Keefe was the last survivor of the Michael O'Keefe family, pioneer residents of Manannah town. The parents, two sons and two daughters, comprising the family are all dead. The nearest relatives are first cousins and an aunt. The members of the family were all of a thrifty disposition, and accumulated a considerable fortune which descended to the last survivor. The property includes the 320 acre farm in Manannah town where trunk highway No. 22 crosses Crow river near the Murphy place. Miss O'Keefe in her will gives the bulk of her property to the Catholic church of which she was a member. Her relatives do not share in the estate to any great extent. Following is a copy of the will, which is on file in the probate court and open to inspection:
I, Mary O'Keefe, now residing at Eden Valley, Minnesota, being of sound mind and memory and considering the uncertain duration of life, do hereby make public and declare my Last Will and Testiment (sic) as follows:
First:- I direct that all my lawful debts, if any there be, and the expenses of my funeral be paid; and I further direct my executor to procure and place upon the graves of my father and mother, and my two brothers and one sister, in the Catholic cemetery in Manannah, Meeker county, Minnesota, granite covers suitable marked and to pay the cost of the same, approximately Seven Hundred Dollars, out of my estate; provided the same has not previously been done.
Second:- I give and bequeath to St. Dominick's Catholic church of San Francisco, California, Five Hundred Dollars; and to St. Edward's Catholic church of San Francisco, California, Five Hundred Dollars: and to St. Peter's Catholic church of Litchfield, Minnesota, Five Hundred Dollars; and to St. Phillip's Catholic church of Litchfield, Minnesota, Five Hundred Dollars; and to St. Ignatius' Catholic church of San Francisco, California, Five Hundred Dollars.
Third:- My lot in Albany California, the only Lot I own there, I give devise and bequeath to Star of the Sea Catholic church of San Francisco, California.
Fourth:- I give and bequeath to the Arch-bishop of the Catholic Archdiocese of St. Paul, Minnesota, for masses for my parents, my two brothers and my sister, all deceased and for myself, the sum of Three Thousand Dollars.
Fifth:- I give and bequeath to my cousins Bridget Mc Cann, Annie Martin, Patrick Hayes, Thomas Hayes, Richard Hayes, Mary Bagley, Daniel Hartnett, Mary Connors, Mrs. Hines, John Butler, James Butler, David McCarthy, Henry McCarthy, Daniel McCarthy, Flory McCarthy, Ben McCarthy, and Mary Connors, and to my aunt Mary Butler, each the sum of One Dollar.
Sixth:- I give and bequeath to P. J. Enright and to William Enright of Eden Valley, Minnesota, each the sum of Three Hundred Dollars, and to Kate Breen of Eden Valley, Minnesota, the sum of Three Hundred Dollars, and to Mrs. John O'Connor of Eden Valley, Minnesota, the sum of One Thousand Dollars, and to Mrs. Mary Dillon of Eden Valley, Minnesota, the sum of Fifty Dollars.
Seventh:- I give and bequeath to Mrs. Joe Mc Coy of 4042 24th St. , San Francisco, California, the sum of Five Hundred Dollars; and to Mrs. Patrick Keene of No. 1316 Sanchez St., San Francisco, California, the sum of Three Hundred Dollars; and to Mrs. E. C. Weidman of No. 3247 Sacramento St., San Francisco, the sum of Three Hundred Dollars; and to Mrs. Lillie Bopp, of No. 3249 Sacramento St., San Francisco, California, the sum of Three Hundred Dollars, and I give and bequeath to Mary Scholtes, the wife of matt Scholtes of Manannah, Minnesota, the sum of One Hundred Fifty Dollars.
Eighth;;- All the residue and remainder of my estate I give, devise and bequeath to the Archbishop of the Catholic Archdiocese of St. Paul, Minnesota, absolutely;
Ninth:- I appoint E. P. Peterson of Litchfield, Minnesota, to be executor of this my Will.
In testimony whereof I have hereunto set my hand and seal at Litchfield, Minnesota, this 26th day of September, 1925.
MARY O'KEEFE
The Butler name I was familiar with. Margaret Butler was living with Ellen Hartnett at the time of the 1900 census and identified as "niece". There was also a marriage record at the Cathedral of St. Paul for a Patrick Butler of Wright County and Mary Keefe. Census records and the will piece together this relationship. I have spent years looking for Mrs. Heines as listed in this will and in Mary O'Keefe Butler's probate record only to find recently her married name was Heimes! Mary's death record says her father's name was John O'Keefe--so we have 2 O'Keefes, 1 Michael and 1 John as the father.
It was that lucky mention of Flory that helped sort this family out from the hundreds of McCarthys in Minnesota. There are not too many male Florences! This lead to Egan, Dakota County where the Downings lived. The parents of the McCarthy cousins mentioned are John McCarthy and Bridget O'Keefe. She married John McCarthy at the St. Paul Cathedral on 4th October 1863. The family lived in Eagan and records were found at St. Peter's, Mendota. As it turns out, Michael Downing and his first wife were godparents to John and Bridget's daughter Mary in 1864.
So, where does that leave us? One O'Keefe family has the siblings of John, Ellen O'Keefe Hartnett, Mary O'Keefe Butler, Michael and Bridget O'Keefe McCarthy as identified by the will of Mary O'Keefe of Mannanah.
It does not explain the relationship of Margaret O'Keefe Conners Downing. So, she remains "related" but not a sibling of the those O'Keefes just mentioned nor of Mary O'Keefe Hogan as her parents are identified on her death certificate as Patrick Keefe and Johanna Ryan.
Onto the Sheehans. This is not our Le Sueur Sheehans. Lill recounts this story. The Sheehans were very poor and Michael and Bridget helped them come to America. James and Mary Doyle Sheehan came to the USA in 1890. They had a child born soon after their arrival and he was named Michael Alphonse Sheehan. His godparents were Michael and Bridget Hogan. There is also a Sheehan baby buried in the Hogan plot at Calvary Cemetery, St. Paul. Lill thinks that Crabby Mary may have been Mary Doyle's aunt. One of the Sheehan's daughters was Mary Sheehan Arcand. One of Mary Arcand's sons gave me a copy of her birth certificate. She was born at Boyd's Range, Ballinacurra, Limerick. I have not yet located the correct death certificate for her mother. So, there is still more to be learned there!!
And finally, the McCanns. Here is one of those fruitless searches. Both Vera Murray and Lill said that there were McCann relations in St. Paul. Some of the family members were: Mae, James, John, Ag and Rose McCann. A McCann family lived at 77 W. Sycamore in St. Paul but I can't find Ag or Rose in that family. I found an Ag and Rose in a family that lived in Goodhue County, but there just doesn't seem to be a clear relation to either family.
Well, Crabby Mary was an easy way to identify Mary O'Keefe Hogan. Lill said she was very stern. Perhaps it was her hard life. The Hogans ran a boarding house at 755 Sylvan. Some of the Whalens lodged there when they came to live in St. Paul. She also took in laundry to help support the family. Lill said that Patrick, her husband, was bed-ridden and blind. The matriarchal comment comes from another incident regarding our ancestor Michael. Evidently he was getting "too thick" with a girl that Crabby Mary didn't like, so she sent him on over the pond. These O'Keefe women got all these marriage kinks worked out!
As you may have noticed, Keefe can be found in any of these forms: Keefe, Keeffe, or O'Keefe.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Meeting my cousin
A couple of Sundays ago, I met with my cousin James Chock. We used to call him Jimmy Chock when we were little. He is the son of my aunt Catherine Hogan Chock and Aloys Chock. He has 2 sisters--Roseann and Janice. Their family lived in the St. Cloud area and we seldom saw them. It is strange but true that first cousins don't automatically know each other!! We reconnected when his daughter Jennifer started working on the family tree.
Nice to meet you, James Chock!
Monday, May 31, 2010
Persistent Mysteries
I really don't enjoy being introduced as the "5th cousin of my grandmother's cat". So I continue to pursue the elusive bit of genealogical information that will settle once and for all what relation I am to Colette's grandmother's cat. (As long as that cat doesn't drag me in!)
I met Colette Keniry through John Whalen. John Whalen lived in St. Thomas, Derrynane, Le Sueur County, Minnesota. He was my grandfather's cousin on his father's side. John's father Thomas and my great grandmother Bridget Whalen Hogan were siblings. John's mother was Mary Herlihy Whalen. She was a native of Carriganes, Ballydesmond, Cork.
When Mary Herlihy arrived in New York, it was the 4th of July 1889. She had to wait until the next day to get off the ship because of the holiday. The Le Sueur Sentinel announced her arrival thus: Mary Herlihy arrived from Queenstown on the 4th after 10 days on the “City ofParis ”, cousin of Dennis Sheehan.
She was headed to St. Thomas, Minnesota where her brother Dan already lived.
My favorite part of this whole story is that ongoing connection to Ireland. Mary kept in touch with home. It was traditional to write at Christmas and Easter. At some point, the correspondence was done by Colette's mother--Kate Kelly Lynch. Then Colette took over the job. John Whalen's wife, Margaret, used to correspond with Colette. Then, after Margaret's death, John wrote to Colette. John gave me one of the letters. I couldn't read her handwriting, so I did my best to decipher her name and wa-la! Somehow, she got the letter! We have been writing since 1978. Thus, this family has been corresponding since 1889!!!!! I love that part! Unfortunately, none of those old letters exist.
Back to the genealogy.
When John's parents married, they got a dispensation to marry because they were (if I understand this correctly) 1st cousins once removed. You'd think that with this specific of information, sorting out the exact families involved would not be THAT difficult!!! But, that common ancestor is unknown. The trail ends just before that person.
Mary Herlihy's line is as follows: John Herlihy & Mary Hartnett; John's father--unknown. Colette's line goes Catherine Kelly-->Hannah Herlihy--John Herlihy & Mary Hartnett-->unknown.
Our line goes: Mare-->Marguerite-->James J. Hogan-->Bridget Whalen-->Julia Sheehan-->Mary Herlihy Sheehan-->unknown. Now, here is the rub. Mary Herlihy Sheehan appears in her marriage record and in the baptismal records as Mary Sheehan. Where does that Herlihy come in!!!???
In the death records for the siblings of Julia Sheehan Whalen, the parent's names do not agree. On Patsy Sheehan's death certificate, his parents are given as Dennis Sheehan and Mary Herlihy. On Dennis Sheehan's certificate, the parents are given as Patrick Sheehan and Johanna Herlihy. On John Sheehan's death certificate, his parents are given as Michael Sheahan and Mary Sheahan. Oops! Looks like I don't have a copy of Julia's or Mary's death certificates. Notes say that Julia's maiden name is Sheehan.
Anyway, you get the point of confusion. On this side of the pond, the common knowledge is that the parents' surnames were Sheehan and Herlihy. In records in Ireland, the mother always appears as Mary Sheehan--even in the marriage record.
At this point, who knows! Could the mother of Mary Sheehan be a Herlihy? Probably not, because that would not work out with the 1st cousin once removed theme. I am entertaining that Mary may have been previously married. Right now, It looks very likely that John Whalen's grandfather and William Herlihy (whom I have not yet alluded to) are brothers. I'm basing this on the furor caused by the marriage of Julia Babe Herlihy and Denis Herlihy. They were third cousins. Her grandfather was said William. Denis' grandparents were John Herlihy and Mary Hartnett. The common ancestor would be the father of John and William.
Well, let's add a little more. Colette believes that the woman in the photo wearing the hat is her grandmother. Hannah Herlihy is a sister of Mary Herlihy Whalen. She came to the USA in 1902. She had been working previously to that in Limerick as a milk maid. The stories on Colette's side of the pond were sketchy. She was told by her mother that her grandparents had moved to America. Hannah was living in St. Thomas in 1903 she attended the wedding of wedding of Mr. Hogan in St. Paul according to a little news bit in the Belle Plaine Herald. This turned out to be the wedding of Thomas H. Hogan and Julia Kalka. Thomas was the brother of James J. Hogan.
The mystery continues...
In the photo: front: John, Jimmy, Tom, Thomas.
In the back: sisters Hannah Herlihy and Mary Herlihy Whalen.
I met Colette Keniry through John Whalen. John Whalen lived in St. Thomas, Derrynane, Le Sueur County, Minnesota. He was my grandfather's cousin on his father's side. John's father Thomas and my great grandmother Bridget Whalen Hogan were siblings. John's mother was Mary Herlihy Whalen. She was a native of Carriganes, Ballydesmond, Cork.
When Mary Herlihy arrived in New York, it was the 4th of July 1889. She had to wait until the next day to get off the ship because of the holiday. The Le Sueur Sentinel announced her arrival thus: Mary Herlihy arrived from Queenstown on the 4th after 10 days on the “City of
She was headed to St. Thomas, Minnesota where her brother Dan already lived.
My favorite part of this whole story is that ongoing connection to Ireland. Mary kept in touch with home. It was traditional to write at Christmas and Easter. At some point, the correspondence was done by Colette's mother--Kate Kelly Lynch. Then Colette took over the job. John Whalen's wife, Margaret, used to correspond with Colette. Then, after Margaret's death, John wrote to Colette. John gave me one of the letters. I couldn't read her handwriting, so I did my best to decipher her name and wa-la! Somehow, she got the letter! We have been writing since 1978. Thus, this family has been corresponding since 1889!!!!! I love that part! Unfortunately, none of those old letters exist.
Back to the genealogy.
When John's parents married, they got a dispensation to marry because they were (if I understand this correctly) 1st cousins once removed. You'd think that with this specific of information, sorting out the exact families involved would not be THAT difficult!!! But, that common ancestor is unknown. The trail ends just before that person.
Mary Herlihy's line is as follows: John Herlihy & Mary Hartnett; John's father--unknown. Colette's line goes Catherine Kelly-->Hannah Herlihy--John Herlihy & Mary Hartnett-->unknown.
Our line goes: Mare-->Marguerite-->James J. Hogan-->Bridget Whalen-->Julia Sheehan-->Mary Herlihy Sheehan-->unknown. Now, here is the rub. Mary Herlihy Sheehan appears in her marriage record and in the baptismal records as Mary Sheehan. Where does that Herlihy come in!!!???
In the death records for the siblings of Julia Sheehan Whalen, the parent's names do not agree. On Patsy Sheehan's death certificate, his parents are given as Dennis Sheehan and Mary Herlihy. On Dennis Sheehan's certificate, the parents are given as Patrick Sheehan and Johanna Herlihy. On John Sheehan's death certificate, his parents are given as Michael Sheahan and Mary Sheahan. Oops! Looks like I don't have a copy of Julia's or Mary's death certificates. Notes say that Julia's maiden name is Sheehan.
Anyway, you get the point of confusion. On this side of the pond, the common knowledge is that the parents' surnames were Sheehan and Herlihy. In records in Ireland, the mother always appears as Mary Sheehan--even in the marriage record.
At this point, who knows! Could the mother of Mary Sheehan be a Herlihy? Probably not, because that would not work out with the 1st cousin once removed theme. I am entertaining that Mary may have been previously married. Right now, It looks very likely that John Whalen's grandfather and William Herlihy (whom I have not yet alluded to) are brothers. I'm basing this on the furor caused by the marriage of Julia Babe Herlihy and Denis Herlihy. They were third cousins. Her grandfather was said William. Denis' grandparents were John Herlihy and Mary Hartnett. The common ancestor would be the father of John and William.
Well, let's add a little more. Colette believes that the woman in the photo wearing the hat is her grandmother. Hannah Herlihy is a sister of Mary Herlihy Whalen. She came to the USA in 1902. She had been working previously to that in Limerick as a milk maid. The stories on Colette's side of the pond were sketchy. She was told by her mother that her grandparents had moved to America. Hannah was living in St. Thomas in 1903 she attended the wedding of wedding of Mr. Hogan in St. Paul according to a little news bit in the Belle Plaine Herald. This turned out to be the wedding of Thomas H. Hogan and Julia Kalka. Thomas was the brother of James J. Hogan.
The mystery continues...
In the photo: front: John, Jimmy, Tom, Thomas.
In the back: sisters Hannah Herlihy and Mary Herlihy Whalen.
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Saturday, May 29, 2010
Uncle Jimmy's Birthday
James Patrick Hogan was born on this date in 1932. I wish I had a picture of Uncle Jimmy and Grammy sitting on either end of the couch! That is what I remember most vividly.
I feel a little sad that I don't know more about him.
I know he served in the Korean war. Jeffie was his dog. We weren't allowed to go into his bedroom at Grammy's.
He married Doris Tapson in 1961. They had two children: Michael James and Brian Donald. Both of them married and had kids. We've lost contact.
I remember Jimmy as being gentle. He died in 1989. RIP
I feel a little sad that I don't know more about him.
I know he served in the Korean war. Jeffie was his dog. We weren't allowed to go into his bedroom at Grammy's.
He married Doris Tapson in 1961. They had two children: Michael James and Brian Donald. Both of them married and had kids. We've lost contact.
I remember Jimmy as being gentle. He died in 1989. RIP
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Grammy Anecdote
There was bacon fried this morning, which I was going to ignore. My toast popped up and wa-la, why not put that bacon on my peanut butter toast. (Stop the yucks and try it!!)
This reminded me of Grammy. She used to fry up bacon very crisp. Then, she put it between 2 grocery bags and crushed it with a rolling pin until it was very fine. Then she added it to a mushed-up banana and fed it to the current baby.
I don't know why!
This reminded me of Grammy. She used to fry up bacon very crisp. Then, she put it between 2 grocery bags and crushed it with a rolling pin until it was very fine. Then she added it to a mushed-up banana and fed it to the current baby.
I don't know why!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
"I have called you by name, you are Mine." Isaiah 43
The Irish often followed a naming pattern when giving their children names. You can see this play out in Ma's family. The children in the family are Mary Alice, Ann Mary (Ma), John, James and Dorothy.
The pattern is:
Sons
1st son was named after the father's father
2nd son was named after the mother's father
3rd son was named after the father
4th son was named after the father's eldest brother
5th son was named after the mother's eldest brother
Daughters
1st daughter was named after the mother's mother
2nd daughter was named after the father's mother
3rd daughter was named after the mother
4th daughter was named after the mother's sister
5th daughter was names after the father's sister
Ma's parents were David O'Connell and Margaret Doherty. David's parents were John G. O'Connell and Mary Ann Pyles. Margaret's parents were James Doherty and Ann Heatherston. Now, when you get to Dorothy, by tradition, she should have been named Margaret. The mother has the option of giving this daughter another name she likes. Colette Keniry used this option. When she got to the third daughter, she named her Fidelma.
The pattern isn't exact in the James Doherty family. His parents were Hugh Doherty and Sarah Evans. Ann's parents were Richard Heatherston and Roseann Lynch. The children in this family were Sarah, Richard, Rose, Margaret, Hugh, Mary, Matthew, Samuel and Michael. It would be understandable that the name Richard preempted Hugh because Ann's father died about 1867, so it the first son may have been named after him. The next son is named after James' dad. Matthew is a brother of Ann. Both Ann and James have a brother Michael. Margaret is an older sister of Ann. At least the names are mostly in the family. The name that is puzzling is Samuel Henry.
Of course, this was not set in stone. If a child dies, you will often find another child given the same name in order for there to be a living namesake. Sometimes the pattern wasn't followed at all. If someone in the family died, a child could be named after that person, altering the pattern.
I remember Mom saying that her father wanted to name her Bridget. This would have followed the pattern for his mother's name was Bridget Whalen Hogan. None of the children were named according to the pattern, though Catherine had her mother's name and Uncle Jimmy had his father's first name.
One of my favorite stories is about all the Timothys in the Burns family. There were a lot of Tims. They were given nick names like "Old Tim", "Big Tim" and Timothy Q.
To differentiate people, names were often combined. There was a woman called Ceily Dick. Her name was Cecelia Kilduff Byrne. Her husband was Richard Byrne--thus her identifier. In Ireland, sometimes the nicknames would indicate the father. There is a Timmy Patsy Herlihy--his father is Patrick. There is a Jehr Billy--his father is William Herlihy. There is also Thad Jack--you guessed it--his father is John Herlihy.
The pattern is:
Sons
1st son was named after the father's father
2nd son was named after the mother's father
3rd son was named after the father
4th son was named after the father's eldest brother
5th son was named after the mother's eldest brother
Daughters
1st daughter was named after the mother's mother
2nd daughter was named after the father's mother
3rd daughter was named after the mother
4th daughter was named after the mother's sister
5th daughter was names after the father's sister
Ma's parents were David O'Connell and Margaret Doherty. David's parents were John G. O'Connell and Mary Ann Pyles. Margaret's parents were James Doherty and Ann Heatherston. Now, when you get to Dorothy, by tradition, she should have been named Margaret. The mother has the option of giving this daughter another name she likes. Colette Keniry used this option. When she got to the third daughter, she named her Fidelma.
The pattern isn't exact in the James Doherty family. His parents were Hugh Doherty and Sarah Evans. Ann's parents were Richard Heatherston and Roseann Lynch. The children in this family were Sarah, Richard, Rose, Margaret, Hugh, Mary, Matthew, Samuel and Michael. It would be understandable that the name Richard preempted Hugh because Ann's father died about 1867, so it the first son may have been named after him. The next son is named after James' dad. Matthew is a brother of Ann. Both Ann and James have a brother Michael. Margaret is an older sister of Ann. At least the names are mostly in the family. The name that is puzzling is Samuel Henry.
Of course, this was not set in stone. If a child dies, you will often find another child given the same name in order for there to be a living namesake. Sometimes the pattern wasn't followed at all. If someone in the family died, a child could be named after that person, altering the pattern.
I remember Mom saying that her father wanted to name her Bridget. This would have followed the pattern for his mother's name was Bridget Whalen Hogan. None of the children were named according to the pattern, though Catherine had her mother's name and Uncle Jimmy had his father's first name.
One of my favorite stories is about all the Timothys in the Burns family. There were a lot of Tims. They were given nick names like "Old Tim", "Big Tim" and Timothy Q.
To differentiate people, names were often combined. There was a woman called Ceily Dick. Her name was Cecelia Kilduff Byrne. Her husband was Richard Byrne--thus her identifier. In Ireland, sometimes the nicknames would indicate the father. There is a Timmy Patsy Herlihy--his father is Patrick. There is a Jehr Billy--his father is William Herlihy. There is also Thad Jack--you guessed it--his father is John Herlihy.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Tale of Two Bovines
One of the pleasures of the Internet age is the availability of so much information at your fingertips. The first cow story is just a short add found by doing a search on the address of Patrick and Mary Hogan in St. Paul.
The Library of Congress has digitized selected newspapers and a search may be made at Chronicling America.
The following add was in the November 12, 1889 issue of the St. Paul Daily Globe:
The Library of Congress has digitized selected newspapers and a search may be made at Chronicling America.
The following add was in the November 12, 1889 issue of the St. Paul Daily Globe:
Lost and Found.
Cow Lost—Lost since Nov. 6, 1889, one red cow with white spots on both flanks, with horns turn in. Finder will please send word to Mrs. P. Hogan, 755 Sylvan st., city.
The other story was found the old fashioned way--by cranking through pages of microfilmed newspapers at the Minnesota History Center.
Cow Walked Her Way Back Alone from St. Paul to St. Thomas Farm
By Win V. Working
It’s a shame to start this story with a hackneyed reference to Mrs. O’Leary’s cow and the Chicago fire, but it can’t be helped. For this is a tale of another cow that achieved distinction in a novel way. She didn’t start a fire, but she set a record—not for butterfat, but for finding her way home from West St . Paul to a farm near St. Thomas . It happened back in pioneer days. The cow belonged to James Whalen, an early settler who lived two miles south of St. Thomas . Here is the story as related to the writer by Thomas Whalen, son of the pioneer, who now lives on the old homestead:
“I was only a young gaffer at the time, but I remember the incident distinctly and can vouch for the facts stated. We came here about 60 years ago and one fall not long after we had settled on the farm father sold a cow to a man named Donovan. He got $40 for her. She was a fine cow, red in color, but only a scrub, of course. We needed the money and had more cows. Anyway, Donovan led the cow to Belle Plaine and there loaded her in a wagon or truck drawn by oxen. At Jordan he picked another cow and took both to West St. Paul . He wintered them and along in May put them in a pasture along the river.
“Our cow had had a calf and seemed contented in her new home. But one day, along about the first of June, both cows broke out of the pasture and disappeared, leaving the calf, which was probably tied up, behind. Donovan hunted for the cows high and low and decided they might have fallen in the river. But he write to us to learn if we had seen anything of the cow, and we sent word back that we had seen no sign of her. There the matter ended for the time being.
“Then along in the later part of August—I know we had our harvesting and stacking done—we happened to look in the barnyard one morning and there was our cow. She had a bell on and her udder was full. We finally decided that she had just wandered away and had stopped at different farms, going in at night and being milked with the other cows. Farmers along the way had probably milked her because they saw that she was fresh and had a full udder. Any sensible farmer would do that. Then she likely wandered on until she got to our place. She was nearly three months on the way, and, of course, we don’t know that she really started for home. She may have simply drifted along until she got here. But the fact is, she did get back home all by herself, all the way from West St . Paul .
“We wrote to Donovan and he told us to keep the cow awhile. In October he came and got her and that was the end of the cow incident. But a good many people have found it difficult to believe the story and I am glad to have an opportunity to make public the real facts, so that people will not think we had been trying to put something over all these years.”
The Whalens came to Minnesota from Michigan . Thomas was born at Portage in that state in 1860. His parents came from Ireland . He was about 10 years old when the family settled on the farm near St. Thomas, where one son has lived continuously ever since. That section was all woods when the Whalens arrived, although several families were there ahead of them. Among their early neighbors were Dennis Sheehan, an uncle of Thomas; Charles Denzer, Dennis Ring, John and Timothy Shea, Michael Courtney, John Merry, Thos. Healey, James Hickey, Daniel Fowler and the Connellys. The church at St. Thomas was a log structure then.
The Whalens farmed with oxen and lived in a log cabin. There were seven children when the family came to Minnesota and two ore were born here. Only three are living. This two besides Thomas are Mrs. Frank Blake and Mrs. John Buckley, both of St. Paul . These two sisters, by the way, can substantiate Mr. Whalen’s cow story both he and his wife informed the writer. Thomas married Mary Herlihy June 28, 1892, in St. Paul . She had been keeping house for her brother, Daniel Herlihy, near the Whalen farm. Mrs. Whalen is a native of county Cork and the rich, charming brogue of old Ireland still distinctly marks her accent, and there is no danger of mistaking Thomas for a Swede or a Bohemian from his accent for that matter.
The elder Whalen died in 1880 and his widow’s death occurred 14 years ago. Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Whalen have three children, all boys—James, John and Thomas. They live at home and operate a farm near St. Thomas , which their father bought three years ago in addition to the home place.
“Times have changed since I was a lad here,” Mr. Whalen mused. “it was a wild country then, but all the new improvements have come right into our neighborhood. The news comes in by radio and every little while an airplane passes overhead.” “Ah, yes, there have been changes,” he added as he shook his grey head. But Mr. Whalen and his good wife both chuckled heartily as amusing incidents were recalled and gave evidence that they have not been cheated of their share of happiness, which by the way, they found for themselves.—Midland Feature Service.
Belle Plaine Herald, 19 February 1931
Shanty Irish
When I was at Dad's last time, I mentioned the Whalen name. I wish I could remember his immediate comment, but it alluded to their lack of cleanliness.
I had heard before, from mom, whose people these are, that they were definitely not fastidious people. Mom recalled a time that Grammy visited the Whalens and someone was stirring with her arm and there were flies all over the place. Grammy was appalled.
The Whalens lived near Dad's grandfather in Derrynane Township, in Le Sueur County. To the left is a picture of Julia Sheehan Whalen. She is the mother of Bridget Whalen Hogan who was Mom's grandmother.
Julia was born about 1832 in Kerry, Ireland. I have not found a baptismal record for her. Her obituary says that she was married in Detroit to James Whalen. I have searched page by page for the Whalens in the 1860 census in likely counties for the family, but to no avail. Both Bridget and Thomas were born in Michigan according to other census records. (Thomas is the father of John Whalen).
Julia had siblings here in Minnesota. Her known siblings were Dennis (1828-1905); Michael (1829-@1870); a female who remained in Ireland; Patrick (1837-1925); Mary (@1841-1918; William (1842-1917); and John (1845-1915). Dennis, Patsy and Michael all lived in the upper peninsula of Michigan before moving to Minnesota. They worked in the copper mines.
I have a couple of stories I love to think about--one Aunt Lill Krumweide told me. She said that Gramdma Whalen had bright blue eyes and they sparkled. She spoke Irish. When she came to the house, she had a kid get her a glass of water, put it on her head and proceeded to perform a jig.
Julia also smoked a clay pipe. Francie O'Connell said she would often be seen with the Donahue women walking the long way to St. Thomas Church for Mass.
So, when you get feel yourself getting a little uppity, remember your Shanty Irish great great grandmother!!! (I'm pretty sure I got a few of these Sheehan genes!)
Julia's Obituary:
Mrs. Julia Whalen, a Pioneer Resident of St. Thomas, Passes Away.-
On last Wednesday, Mrs. Julia Whalen, who has lived in this community since 1866, passed away at the home of her son, Thos. Whalen. Mrs. Whalen, who had attained the ripe old age of eighty-seven years, fell about three weeks ago fracturing her hip, and was unable to stand the shock. Before this in spite of her years, she had remained wonderfully active.
The deceased was ever a cheerful, patient woman, ready and anxious to help anyone in distress and to share her last possession with the needy. Her happy helpful disposition made her many friends who will hold her memory a cherished possession.
Mrs. Whalen, whose maiden name was Julia sheehan, was born in County Kerry, Ireland in 1832. When a young woman she came to America and lived first in Detroit, Mich. Here she was married to the late James Whalen. In 1866 Mr. and Mrs. Whalen moved to Le Sueur and settled on a tract of land in St. Thomas, then a portion of the big woods. Until her husband's death in 1880, they lived and worked upon this farm, enduring at first many hardships. Since her husband's death, her son, Thos. Whalen, has run the farm, and she made her home with him. The land is now well developed.
To Mr. and Mrs. Whalen nine children were born, five of whom survive their mother. The living are Thos. Whalen of St. Thomas, Mrs. Nat Edelkam of LeSueur, Mrs. Hogan, Mrs. J. J. Buckley and Mrs. Frank Blake of St. Paul. She is also survived by a brother, Patrick Sheehan of Le Sueur and by a sister in Ireland.
The funeral services were held last Friday morning at ten o'clock in the St. Thomas catholic church, Rev. Dobbins conducted the services. The remains were laid to rest in the St. Thomas Cemetery.
The following were here from a distance to attend the funeral, Mr. and Mrs. Frank Blake, Mr. and Mrs. J. Hogan, Mrs. L. Van Core (sic), Miss C. Hogan, and Mrs. Carlson, all of St. Paul.
Le Sueur Herald, 19 Nov 1919
I had heard before, from mom, whose people these are, that they were definitely not fastidious people. Mom recalled a time that Grammy visited the Whalens and someone was stirring with her arm and there were flies all over the place. Grammy was appalled.
The Whalens lived near Dad's grandfather in Derrynane Township, in Le Sueur County. To the left is a picture of Julia Sheehan Whalen. She is the mother of Bridget Whalen Hogan who was Mom's grandmother.
Julia was born about 1832 in Kerry, Ireland. I have not found a baptismal record for her. Her obituary says that she was married in Detroit to James Whalen. I have searched page by page for the Whalens in the 1860 census in likely counties for the family, but to no avail. Both Bridget and Thomas were born in Michigan according to other census records. (Thomas is the father of John Whalen).
Julia had siblings here in Minnesota. Her known siblings were Dennis (1828-1905); Michael (1829-@1870); a female who remained in Ireland; Patrick (1837-1925); Mary (@1841-1918; William (1842-1917); and John (1845-1915). Dennis, Patsy and Michael all lived in the upper peninsula of Michigan before moving to Minnesota. They worked in the copper mines.
I have a couple of stories I love to think about--one Aunt Lill Krumweide told me. She said that Gramdma Whalen had bright blue eyes and they sparkled. She spoke Irish. When she came to the house, she had a kid get her a glass of water, put it on her head and proceeded to perform a jig.
Julia also smoked a clay pipe. Francie O'Connell said she would often be seen with the Donahue women walking the long way to St. Thomas Church for Mass.
So, when you get feel yourself getting a little uppity, remember your Shanty Irish great great grandmother!!! (I'm pretty sure I got a few of these Sheehan genes!)
Julia's Obituary:
Mrs. Julia Whalen, a Pioneer Resident of St. Thomas, Passes Away.-
On last Wednesday, Mrs. Julia Whalen, who has lived in this community since 1866, passed away at the home of her son, Thos. Whalen. Mrs. Whalen, who had attained the ripe old age of eighty-seven years, fell about three weeks ago fracturing her hip, and was unable to stand the shock. Before this in spite of her years, she had remained wonderfully active.
The deceased was ever a cheerful, patient woman, ready and anxious to help anyone in distress and to share her last possession with the needy. Her happy helpful disposition made her many friends who will hold her memory a cherished possession.
Mrs. Whalen, whose maiden name was Julia sheehan, was born in County Kerry, Ireland in 1832. When a young woman she came to America and lived first in Detroit, Mich. Here she was married to the late James Whalen. In 1866 Mr. and Mrs. Whalen moved to Le Sueur and settled on a tract of land in St. Thomas, then a portion of the big woods. Until her husband's death in 1880, they lived and worked upon this farm, enduring at first many hardships. Since her husband's death, her son, Thos. Whalen, has run the farm, and she made her home with him. The land is now well developed.
To Mr. and Mrs. Whalen nine children were born, five of whom survive their mother. The living are Thos. Whalen of St. Thomas, Mrs. Nat Edelkam of LeSueur, Mrs. Hogan, Mrs. J. J. Buckley and Mrs. Frank Blake of St. Paul. She is also survived by a brother, Patrick Sheehan of Le Sueur and by a sister in Ireland.
The funeral services were held last Friday morning at ten o'clock in the St. Thomas catholic church, Rev. Dobbins conducted the services. The remains were laid to rest in the St. Thomas Cemetery.
The following were here from a distance to attend the funeral, Mr. and Mrs. Frank Blake, Mr. and Mrs. J. Hogan, Mrs. L. Van Core (sic), Miss C. Hogan, and Mrs. Carlson, all of St. Paul.
Le Sueur Herald, 19 Nov 1919
20th Anniversary of Mom's Death
I suppose this is hard to believe, but I have a terrible time remembering the exact date of Mom's death. I usually think it is May 10th. That's been hard to remove from my brain for some reason.
Instead of me writing about Mom, I'm going to cut and paste Maureen's and Theresa's memories of Mom that they posted last year.
Maureen posted this on Facebook:
Marguerite Luella Elizabeth Hogan Burns Sept 2, 1930 - May 11, 1990
- her silent laugh
- Mom and Dad laughing so hard at the Pink Panther that they were wheezing
- 'Mucho Freeo, Reener'
- Her calling Amanda 'Ree'
- warm cookies on the counter after school
- home-made bread
- full, from scratch dinner every night, complete with dessert
-her calling up the stairs: "MaryKayThomasTheresaMaggieTriciaDeniseandMaureeeeeeeen! like it was one word
- hand made Halloween costumes
- How she'd decorate the house for every holiday
- her appreciation for Tom Selleck which shocked me at the time
- her helping me with French, even though I laughed at her pronunciation
- Royal Rummy on hot summer nights
- Watching Dallas or the movie of the week
- Popcorn, especially smelling it after I went to bed
- "birdie my foot!"
- Mom shaking her butt to 'Me and Julio down by the schoolyard"
- And singing Juicy Woman instead of Gypsy Woman
- How scared she was of horses yet she got on one so we could go riding in Estes Park, CO.
- the spaghetti incident on our trip
- Listening to Masterpiece theatre
- Watching the Twins and Vikings
- Facts are facts
- How she pronounced her name: Mar-Guer-rite Lue-Ella...
- Her effective use of my full name at certain times
And here are Theresa's memories:
Mare again:
I always thought it extremely fitting that her wake (okay, visitation) was on Mother's Day. It would be in her to own it that way.
RIP
Instead of me writing about Mom, I'm going to cut and paste Maureen's and Theresa's memories of Mom that they posted last year.
Maureen posted this on Facebook:
Marguerite Luella Elizabeth Hogan Burns Sept 2, 1930 - May 11, 1990
- her silent laugh
- Mom and Dad laughing so hard at the Pink Panther that they were wheezing
- 'Mucho Freeo, Reener'
- Her calling Amanda 'Ree'
- warm cookies on the counter after school
- home-made bread
- full, from scratch dinner every night, complete with dessert
-her calling up the stairs: "MaryKayThomasTheresaMaggieTriciaDeniseandMaureeeeeeeen! like it was one word
- hand made Halloween costumes
- How she'd decorate the house for every holiday
- her appreciation for Tom Selleck which shocked me at the time
- her helping me with French, even though I laughed at her pronunciation
- Royal Rummy on hot summer nights
- Watching Dallas or the movie of the week
- Popcorn, especially smelling it after I went to bed
- "birdie my foot!"
- Mom shaking her butt to 'Me and Julio down by the schoolyard"
- And singing Juicy Woman instead of Gypsy Woman
- How scared she was of horses yet she got on one so we could go riding in Estes Park, CO.
- the spaghetti incident on our trip
- Listening to Masterpiece theatre
- Watching the Twins and Vikings
- Facts are facts
- How she pronounced her name: Mar-Guer-rite Lue-Ella...
- Her effective use of my full name at certain times
And here are Theresa's memories:
The first time I realized that my mother was beautiful was when she came home from Mass one Sunday morning wearing a brown dress, fitted at the waist, a pencil skirt and brown high heels. I was in her closet playing with her other high heels even though I wasn’t supposed to be there. I saw her walking toward the house and felt proud that she was so beautiful. I remember that her skin was soft and so covered with freckles that she looked somewhat tan, although it was just her freckles all mashed together. Her hands were elegant and slim with beautiful fingers. I loved the way her wedding rings looked on her hand. (She probably would have booted me down the block if she knew that I wore them to grade school one day. I don’t know why I did that. Can’t even contemplate the consequences if I had lost them). I loved holding her hands even as an adult. She always had perfume bottles on her dresser. Wing Song was, not sure if the other was Chanel. She did not seem to wear it much; the levels never budged. Maybe this is why I have enjoyed perfume so much as an adult.
During the summer in the grade school years, I have two favorite memories. The first was weekly treks to the library to get books. One or many of us sprawled out in the living room or on the porch reading. I thought she did this for our reading skills and vocabulary. She told me once, that she was such a slow reader, she wanted us to be more proficient; but it was also for her sanity during the summer. A way to keep us all quite, even if for awhile. The second was the game of Royal Rummy. Sometimes we played late, that being said, would mean till 11p.m. or so. We played wicked fast, no time for slackers; you had to bring your A game or you would get ‘the look’ from her. A huge bowl of popcorn and Kool-aid, that was living large.
Even though she never went to college, she did speak three languages. Well, at least she would help us with our verb conjugations or spelling. We mocked her for her poor pronunciation, although ours wasn’t much better. Still, she was always willing to help. When I started nursing school, it was overwhelming. Full time work, full time school a small boy and no money. She made me believe that I could make. I don’t know how, but somewhere along the way, I started to believe I could too. She was one of the few people, other than fellow nurses, who would allow me to tell her detailed events from the hospital. She never stopped me, no matter how gory.
Our house was small, not fancy, but clean and orderly for so many people. I never thought about the organizational skills it took to keep nine people going. I really found out how meticulous she was when I helped her by removing Christmas lights from the tree one year. Each light perfectly attached to the branches so as not to see the wires or cords or perfectly placed tinsel. Who does that? A lost art for sure. One time when walking in the back door, I noticed that Mom had wallpapered the back entrance- 12-16 foot ceilings. I asked her how she did this by herself. She was amazed too. She said she never considered the obstacles once she made a decision to do something. I see this trait in many of her children.
As I got older, I thought of her as a friend at times, not just my mother. But then I saw her with her true best friend, her cousin Pat, I realized that while we were friendly, I could never be her contemporary. The way she would interact with Pat was not the same as with her children. They were funny, irreverent and happy when they were together. We loved Pat, too, for being there for her.
My mother did not say that she loved me much during my life. In fact, I rarely ever heard it. But I knew to the core of my marrow that I was loved by her. That she loved all of us. We all have stories of her, some funny, some sad, some hurtful. Over the years, I have grown to better understand that the critiques were her way of trying to make me a better person, her way of loving. I have accepted that it was her way. I do not dwell on it. But it did not become my way with my son. I have noticed that all of my siblings are much more demonstrative and verbal with their children and families. Every one needs to hear they are loved. As I reflect back over my younger years as a mother, I wish I could have done some things better, I know Mom told me once while she was in the hospital that she had regrets of not giving us kids some things. Some of those were material. She might not have ever known the intangibles were the better gifts. Nativity, the gift of faith, the desire for travel and knowledge, the gift of a large family. I asked her once why she had so many children. She simply said, “Who would you not want to be here.” – She was right. I know she would be disappointed that her children have behaved so poorly towards each other over the years and yet. Still, we are our mother’s children. We do love each other, hopefully, we will be whole soon.
As the grandchildren came, she was freer with the love and hugs. As I watched her with my son, I was so happy that he had such a close relationship with her and was so clearly adored. Unconditional love is amazing. Sometimes I wished that she could have been that way with us, too. I wonder what she would be like with Aidan, especially since he looks so much like Shane or Michael in his independence. I can hear her saying “himself.” Before she died she had me drive her over to the Sandholms on St Pat’s day to deliver shamrock cookies. She wanted to ensure that her very Swedish looking grandchildren knew they were Irish too.
Every now and then I see someone who looks like her it catches my breathe, still after all these years. There is a longing and sadness. I told one of my co-workers that she was my hero. This was at the time when the song, “Wind beneath my Wings” came out. When I left the hospital the night she died, it was the first song that was on the radio on the way home. I had it sung a cappella at her funeral.
This is a hard time for me every year. In the beginning, it would start in April, a sadness, crying more easily. Now, I understand that subconsciously, I am aware of the date long before I acknowledge the anniversary of her passing.
Happy Mothers Day, Mom.
I miss you sometimes so much it hurts my teeth.
Pray for us.
Mare again:
I always thought it extremely fitting that her wake (okay, visitation) was on Mother's Day. It would be in her to own it that way.
RIP
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Yin and Yang...well, kinda
If we go to Mom's and Dad's generation, we have the strange juxtaposition of Mom and her siblings all being deceased and Dad and his siblings all being alive.
Mom's siblings were Lois Catherine (b. 1926); Catherine Marion (born 1927 according to her birth certificate, but Grammy wrote 1928 on the back of her marriage certificate); Marguerite Luella (1930); and James Patrick (1932).
Dad's siblings are Georgia Ann (1927); Mary Margaret (1929); Patrick Thomas (1930); David Paul (1931); John Gregory (1933) and Mary Alice (1935).
The other coincidence that must have been a factor in both families is that the father died when the children were young. George F. Burns died in 1935 and James J. Hogan died in 1934.
I hope I got the Burns longevity gene.
Mom's siblings were Lois Catherine (b. 1926); Catherine Marion (born 1927 according to her birth certificate, but Grammy wrote 1928 on the back of her marriage certificate); Marguerite Luella (1930); and James Patrick (1932).
Dad's siblings are Georgia Ann (1927); Mary Margaret (1929); Patrick Thomas (1930); David Paul (1931); John Gregory (1933) and Mary Alice (1935).
The other coincidence that must have been a factor in both families is that the father died when the children were young. George F. Burns died in 1935 and James J. Hogan died in 1934.
I hope I got the Burns longevity gene.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Founder of the North End Improvement Club
Speaking of lost books...I once had a copy of the Silver Jubilee Anniversary--North End Improvement Club (1922-1947) program, but somehow managed to lose it!
Here is the opening paragraph from this booklet: "In the spring of 1922 a young man appeared one day in the Progress Office, the local newspaper, then managed by H. G. Mueller. He ordered a thousand handbills, which he later distributed in person all thru the North End District. It was a call for the residents to meet at Hedman's Hall on a Friday Night in April. This man was James J. Hogan. At this first meeting about 25 residents decided to meet the following month and organize a club in the interest of the District. Thus on May 8, 1922 the North End Improvement Club of St. Paul, Incorporated, was organized by the citizens of the North End District of the City of St. Paul and dedicated, especially to the GROWTH AND PROSPERITY of the North End of the City."
The 25th anniversary celebration noted the fact that the club had been maintained uninterrupted for the last 25 years. The work of the club was to advocate for the North End so that it would receive the improvements such as sewers, sidewalks, etc.
Another mention of Jim Hogan in the book said: "Jim Hogan and those early founders did their work well. They safeguarded every avenue along the path of progress. they built the Club not for a day or a year, but for the long and successful future."
"Jim Hogan, founder of the club, was a very original and forceful character. He had been a member of the North End League and was not discouraged over its failure. In one of the early meetings it was reported that the only method of securing money to buy the desired playground for the district was to sell certain city property. One of these was the Lafayette Park. Nothing daunted, Jim agreed to go out and sell it. In April 1924 he reported that he had practically sold--but the fellow died on him before he could complete the transaction."
The building is still in existence today and is now called The Klub Haus. The Minnesota Historical Society has a picture of the North End Improvement Club from the 1930s in its collection. I'm too cheap to pay to put it on the web. The photo that appears here is from the Klub Haus website. It looks like the Coen Brothers used it for a movie set!
Here is the opening paragraph from this booklet: "In the spring of 1922 a young man appeared one day in the Progress Office, the local newspaper, then managed by H. G. Mueller. He ordered a thousand handbills, which he later distributed in person all thru the North End District. It was a call for the residents to meet at Hedman's Hall on a Friday Night in April. This man was James J. Hogan. At this first meeting about 25 residents decided to meet the following month and organize a club in the interest of the District. Thus on May 8, 1922 the North End Improvement Club of St. Paul, Incorporated, was organized by the citizens of the North End District of the City of St. Paul and dedicated, especially to the GROWTH AND PROSPERITY of the North End of the City."
The 25th anniversary celebration noted the fact that the club had been maintained uninterrupted for the last 25 years. The work of the club was to advocate for the North End so that it would receive the improvements such as sewers, sidewalks, etc.
Another mention of Jim Hogan in the book said: "Jim Hogan and those early founders did their work well. They safeguarded every avenue along the path of progress. they built the Club not for a day or a year, but for the long and successful future."
"Jim Hogan, founder of the club, was a very original and forceful character. He had been a member of the North End League and was not discouraged over its failure. In one of the early meetings it was reported that the only method of securing money to buy the desired playground for the district was to sell certain city property. One of these was the Lafayette Park. Nothing daunted, Jim agreed to go out and sell it. In April 1924 he reported that he had practically sold--but the fellow died on him before he could complete the transaction."
The building is still in existence today and is now called The Klub Haus. The Minnesota Historical Society has a picture of the North End Improvement Club from the 1930s in its collection. I'm too cheap to pay to put it on the web. The photo that appears here is from the Klub Haus website. It looks like the Coen Brothers used it for a movie set!
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Members of The Ancient Order of Hibernians
Many of our ancestors were members of The Ancient Order of Hibernians. In the obituaries of members you will often see mention of how many members of the Order attended the funeral in full regalia. Below is Michael Hogan, father of James J. Hogan in his regalia.
One of the benefits they provided was insurance. Le Sueur area papers often mentioned what the widow received upon the death of a spouse.
The Hibernians published a newspaper in St. Paul which carried news of the Irish across the country. Our relatives were mentioned on occasion in The Irish Standard.
More about the Ancient Order of Hibernians
One of the benefits they provided was insurance. Le Sueur area papers often mentioned what the widow received upon the death of a spouse.
The Hibernians published a newspaper in St. Paul which carried news of the Irish across the country. Our relatives were mentioned on occasion in The Irish Standard.
More about the Ancient Order of Hibernians
Sunday, March 7, 2010
James J. Hogan
This is my mom's dad, James J. Hogan. He often went by J. J. Hogan. He was born in 1881 in Camp Lake, Swift County, Minnesota. His parents were Bridget Whalen and Michael J. Hogan.
It was a surprise to me when I learned that he had been married before he married my grandmother. I found this out by reading the Belle Plaine Herald. James and his wife attended the funeral of his grandmother, Julia Sheehan Whalen in 1919. I knew it couldn't be Grammy. His first wife's name was Clare Strecker. They were married 28 Jun 1911 at St. Patrick's Church, St. Paul, Minnesota. As my great Aunt Lill told it, there was a big brouhaha over this marriage because Clare was not Catholic. The priest tried to convince him that there were many fine Irish Catholic girls available. He said he wouldn't have them.
Clare died in 1920. There were no children from this marriage.
Jim Hogan worked for the railroad as a brakeman and died in a work related accident. This left Catherine Morehead Hogan, also called Cass, with 3 young children to raise. Their children were Lois Catherine, born 1926; Catherine Marion, born 1928; Marguerite Luella, born 1930 and James Patrick, born 1932. Lois Catherine died 22 Dec 1928. Her death certificate actually says she is a boy and does not give her name.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Grammy
Today is the anniversary of Grandma Selby's death in 1963. Her maiden name was Catherine Marion Morehead. She first married my grandfather James J. Hogan in 1925.
The marriage lasted until James J.'s death in 1934.
Here are a few things that will bring Grammy to mind: fresh baked white bread, Wrigley's Spearmint Gum (1/2 a stick); and a pint of ice cream (mostly for her).
She lived at 97 Hatch St. in St. Paul in what was referred to as the "North End". She was able to grow violets in her porch (4 season) window where her chair was. It is the place I can visualize best from my childhood.
When she opened her purse, it smelled like Wrigley's Spearmint Gum. She would often offer half a stick.
When we lived on Jefferson, she would come over every Wednesday and make bread for us. I remember watching her and her breasts would bobble around as she beat the batter. There was no recipe--all in the head and hands. She used the water from boiled potatoes to make it. Usually there were regular loaves and then buns. I loved the buns--especially the crusty edges. It was all good!
If you stayed over with her, you might be sent on a trip to the corner store. The mission was to buy a pint of ice cream. She would open the package, take a knife and slice off about a 1 inch slab. Then the rest would go in a bowl. Both were covered with chocolate syrup and sometimes peanuts. She got the bowl! The couch where she watched TV (As the World Turns, for sure!), sunk down on each end. The right side as you sat on it was Uncle Jimmy's side and the left was Grammy's. We got to sit in the middle or lie on the rug to watch TV.
On birthdays, she usually sent a card in the mail. It was a big deal--getting mail was quite a treat! In addition there was usually a dollar or two in the card as well.
In this picture are Maggie Burns, Grandma Selby, Mary Kay (me--Solemn Holy Communion), Ma (Ann Burns) and Mom. This is 1960.
In my family tree, Grammy's line is the longest. Her ancestor, Alexander Moorhead, served in the Revolutionary War. Her brother put together a family tree because he wanted to belong to the Sons of the American Revolution. I am slowly documenting the information. Her Moorhead/Morehead line goes like this: Catherine-->Wilbert O.-->John Brown-->Nathan-->Alexander--Alexander-->Samuel Moorhead.
More Grammy stories later.
Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen.
The marriage lasted until James J.'s death in 1934.
Here are a few things that will bring Grammy to mind: fresh baked white bread, Wrigley's Spearmint Gum (1/2 a stick); and a pint of ice cream (mostly for her).
She lived at 97 Hatch St. in St. Paul in what was referred to as the "North End". She was able to grow violets in her porch (4 season) window where her chair was. It is the place I can visualize best from my childhood.
When she opened her purse, it smelled like Wrigley's Spearmint Gum. She would often offer half a stick.
When we lived on Jefferson, she would come over every Wednesday and make bread for us. I remember watching her and her breasts would bobble around as she beat the batter. There was no recipe--all in the head and hands. She used the water from boiled potatoes to make it. Usually there were regular loaves and then buns. I loved the buns--especially the crusty edges. It was all good!
If you stayed over with her, you might be sent on a trip to the corner store. The mission was to buy a pint of ice cream. She would open the package, take a knife and slice off about a 1 inch slab. Then the rest would go in a bowl. Both were covered with chocolate syrup and sometimes peanuts. She got the bowl! The couch where she watched TV (As the World Turns, for sure!), sunk down on each end. The right side as you sat on it was Uncle Jimmy's side and the left was Grammy's. We got to sit in the middle or lie on the rug to watch TV.
On birthdays, she usually sent a card in the mail. It was a big deal--getting mail was quite a treat! In addition there was usually a dollar or two in the card as well.
In this picture are Maggie Burns, Grandma Selby, Mary Kay (me--Solemn Holy Communion), Ma (Ann Burns) and Mom. This is 1960.
In my family tree, Grammy's line is the longest. Her ancestor, Alexander Moorhead, served in the Revolutionary War. Her brother put together a family tree because he wanted to belong to the Sons of the American Revolution. I am slowly documenting the information. Her Moorhead/Morehead line goes like this: Catherine-->Wilbert O.-->John Brown-->Nathan-->Alexander--Alexander-->Samuel Moorhead.
More Grammy stories later.
Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen.
Monday, March 1, 2010
Daunting...
I must be crazy. Anytime I talk about the family tree, people's eyes glaze over! And then, where to begin!! Duh! Like all genealogy books recommend--yourself and your family.
Here goes...
Here are my parents--Marguerite Luella Hogan and Richard Gordon Burns. They were married in 1948 at St. Bernard's Catholic Church in St. Paul. Minnesota. Both of them were born in St. Paul. They met at a dance. They were married for 40 years. My mom died in 1990.
Here goes...
Here are my parents--Marguerite Luella Hogan and Richard Gordon Burns. They were married in 1948 at St. Bernard's Catholic Church in St. Paul. Minnesota. Both of them were born in St. Paul. They met at a dance. They were married for 40 years. My mom died in 1990.
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